NEGLECT CASE STUDY: GRACIE
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My name is Gracie*, I’m 14. I live with my Mum, my older Brother Kyle who’s 17 and my
half-sister Esme who’s seven. We have a dog, Scruff, and two cats. Mum says the house isn’t
ours, it belongs to the council. We have three bedrooms; one for Mum, one for Kyle and me
and Esme share. Her side is always neat and tidy.
School are worried about me because I’m not there much. They keep moaning at Mum, so
she moans at me. I get up late and then have to get Esme ready. I walk her to school
because Mum is always too tired. When I do go to school, I get nasty comments from the
other kids, like: “you stink of BO”, “do you know what a hair brush is” and “does anyone in
your house wash”. I don’t have all the right stuff for lessons either, so my teachers get lairy.
I’ve got to see the school nurse today, but I dunno why. It something like a health
assessment. I’m not bothered what it’s for.
The school nurse is alright. She asked me about my life and stuff at home, like when I go to
bed. School think I always look tired. I told the nurse that I go to bed at 10pm but I don’t fall
asleep straight away, so I watch YouTube or TikTok and send Snapchats to my friends. I’m
vegetarian. Mum hasn’t got the money to buy the foods I like. I eat fruit and veg when we
have them, or I have to eat the dinners Mum gives us, but just leave the meat. A lot of
evenings I just have bread, chips or pasta. The nurse wanted to know about that.
The nurse kept asking me questions. I saw her looking at my arms, I have scratches on them,
so I hide them away by pulling down my jumper because I don’t want to be judged
anymore. I did tell the nurse about my tooth hurting; it’s really bad, and I think I need to see
a dentist, but I don’t remember the last time I went.
I was sad when the school nurse asked me if I had anyone to talk to if I was worried about
stuff, and I said “No”. I can’t talk to Mum; she’s always busy with her own things; my aunty
died last year, and Mum is dealing with that.
For Practitioners
1) What risk(s) can be identified at this point?
2) What actions would you take?
The nurse told me that she was worried and wanted to fill out a form to get some more help
for us. I’m not sure Mum will be happy about that. She doesn’t like social workers, she said
they are too nosey and should just let people get on with life.
A police officer came to school to talk to Year 9 about being safe. I liked her. I had wanted to
join the police when I left school. I felt safe, she wasn’t ‘judgey’ or anything. I told her that
sometimes Mum hits me with a hairbrush and tells me to sort my hair out. I ended up telling
her about the marks on my arms. When I hear Mum and her boyfriend shouting, it reminds
me of when Dad lived with us.